Listicle: 6 Steps to Managing Homesickness and Making Friends at University Written by Gemma Campbell, counsellor and content creator at Kooth Wednesday 08 December 2021 Share Share to LinkedIn Share to Facebook Share via email Struggling to settle in at university? Taking time to adapt to new friends and surroundings? Our expert counsellors at Kooth share their handy tips. One of the biggest worries of university is around making friends. You might have moved away from home for the first time and left friends and family behind. Making friends as an adult can be a very different experience to making friends as a child. And because we know how many people are feeling homesick and perhaps worried about having friends right now, we thought it was an important topic to explore. With the help of some expert counsellors, we’ve put together these handy tips. 1. Think about what you want from your friendships Starting afresh and meeting new people can be a great time to think about your own boundaries and needs when it comes to friendships. What are you looking for and what are you okay with and not okay with in your relationships? For example: do you need people to respect your space, to share the same interests, to be a good listener? Thinking about these things can help you develop healthy and meaningful friendships and perhaps also help you to reflect on past friendships that haven’t been so healthy too. “It’s important to note that social media might give us the impression that university is all about big groups of friends having the time of their lives," says one Kooth therapist. "That’s a lot of pressure if it doesn’t fit with your own friendship needs. "Plus, the reality is, that some people don’t want or need a lot of friends and that’s okay too. So whether you want to make lots of friends or just have one or two meaningful friendships, do what feels right for you.” Want to learn more about successful employee engagement? Login or register below for Free Instant Access Login If you are already registered as a CMI Friend, Subscriber or Member, just login to view this article. Confirm your registration Login below to confirm your details and access this article. Sign in with email Email remember me remember Forget? Please confirm that you want to switch off the "Sign in with email" remember me feature. Yes No Register for Free Access Not yet a Member, Subscriber or Friend? Register as a CMI Friend for free, and get access to this and many other exclusive resources, as well as weekly updates straight to your inbox. You have successfully registered As a CMI Friend, you now have access to whole range of CMI Friendship benefits. Please login to the left to confirm your registration and access the article. You might also like these posts on this topic: Topic: “You can achieve anything if you try hard enough” Sandy Farar CMgr FCMI took great risks to build her career – but her hard work and resilience paid off Read article Article Topic: Highlights – 14 May Middle management, cost-cutting and Tupperware: another week of meeting management challenges Read article Article Topic: How can managers help remove barriers facing disabled employees? We ask how managers can better support disabled employees at work (and what support managers themselves need) Read article Article Topic: Workplace Culture Is middle management just a “thankless slog”? Data says young people see middle management as an overburdened and underpaid position – so what needs to change? Read article Article Browse all posts Don’t miss out - get notified of new content Sign-up to become a Friend of CMI to recieve our free newsletter for a regular round-up of our latest insight and guidance. CMI members always see more. For the widest selection of content, including CPD tools and multimedia resources, check out how to get involved with CMI membership. Newsletter More ways to get involved Listicle Looking for top tips, checklists or listed ways to help you along with your management and leadership journey? You can find these here with practical tools and tips to help you to become a better manager Members See More CMI Members have access to thousands of online learning and CPD resources. Learn more about our membership benefits Join The Community CMI offers a variety of flexible membership solutions, tailored to your needs. Find out more and get involved in the CMI community today. Listicle Looking for top tips, checklists or listed ways to help you along with your management and leadership journey? You can find these here with practical tools and tips to help you to become a better manager Members See More CMI Members have access to thousands of online learning and CPD resources. Learn more about our membership benefits Join The Community CMI offers a variety of flexible membership solutions, tailored to your needs. Find out more and get involved in the CMI community today.
